I've been working for a student exchange agency for a couple of years now. I place full year students from around the globe with local families. This has been such a pleasure for me. A good family who loves the Lord can change the course of a students life and in so doing affect a nation far from their own. While we dream of visiting the nations this is a practical way in which to share. We aren't flying in, doing a few dramas, talking to people and flying home. We spend a year loving and living Jesus. This type of evangelism is extremely fruitful.
In February I had 36 Chinese students and advisers arrive from China for a 2 week stay in Lebanon Oregon of all places. They came from Beijing. A city twice the size of LA. So, you can imagine their shock at seeing what Lebanon was like. I don't think there was any way to prepare them for just what small town America is like.
Our host families ranged from very conservative Mennonite families to hippy-style Jesus people. Young families with lots of small children and older married couples with no children left at home. My goal was to place every single student with a Christian family. I believe it is a complete waste to bring them all this way and not share the one thing that they need most and can't get in China. A chance to attend church and live with an openly Christian family. (I had one family who wasn't Christian, but when I met with them I felt the Lord say that He was interested in that family, take them)
God provided host families in the most unusual and stretching ways. In fact 5 days before the students arrived I still needed 7 families and 2 days before the student arrived I still needed 3 families. God just kept bringing people at the last possible moments.
I actually had fun praying for the matches. Asking God which kids were to stay with which family. I had one family get really mad when I gave them a different child than the one they wanted. On the last day when the students were leaving they approached me and said that they weren't sure how I did it, but their student was a perfect match. Grin~ Isn't God good, we can rely on Him to show us. I had the most fun sharing with them that this was God's perfect match.
I believe that because of my circumstances with my mom dying God brought a special grace because we had absolutely no real problems with any of the students and their host families. In fact I saw allot of amazing bonding. We had two beautiful girls stay with us. Sissi and Rita. They were freshman. One year older than our daughter Melody. The girls had such a great time. The differences in cultures were staggering. They are expected to study each day from 6:30am to 6pm at school and then home to eat and study until 11:30pm each night. The students are dying to play a game or run outside and laugh. They told me over and over that they truly wished to enjoy life. The most important thing for a Chinese student is selection. Upon graduation they will be selected for the type of career that they will be assigned. This determines the rest of their lives.
One afternoon, one of the teachers, Helen told me, " you have a very free and relaxing life here". I said, "yes, what do you mean by that?". She said, " you are free to tell the truth, you can say no or yes, or give an opinion and while some may not like it, it will not end your career or put you in harms way with those who disagree who may be in authority." This same teacher Helen stayed with an amazing couple from my church who laid out the plan of salvation early on. She had many questions during her time here. She LOVED church. In fact she sat in the front row videoing everything that happened. As she got on the plane to go, she looked me deeply in the eyes and said, "Thank you for putting me with Mike and Deb, they gave me answers that I needed and changed my life". While she did not speak a profession of faith, but I know that for her to say even that is a big thing. She is the head of the communist party in her community and has been nationally recognized for her teaching skills. She went home with a Bible in Chinese and the rest is up to God.
We had such a wide variety of responses. One student asked his host mom what kind of music she was listening to, she told him it was Christian music. He said he must get some of this music to take home.
Another student, Ricky went to church with his host mom, the message was on Genesis and the beginning of the world. He told her, this history you speak of I have never heard, I must know this history. This is very important. This same student calls his host mom regularly and talks about reading his Chinese Bible and talks of accepting Jesus.
Jhade stayed with my friend Judy. After going to church he told her, "that I feel clean, when they were singing I felt cleansed." While they were here I realized something that I had never considered before. That even if we had gone to China and had the same experience they still would have missed out on this amazing opportunity to go to church in an open environment. There is nothing like the Spirit of God to change a life.
From a personal perspective, if I could choose anything I would host again in a heartbeat. I'm not sure that I would teach again. That part was extremely stretching, it is very hard to capture the attention of kids who have traveled across the globe to see America with English grammar lessons. I had a number of families who expressed a desire to much more involved if God lets us do this again. If God brought a number of people like that I can see arranging this in a much different way and it being very effective.
Just a few highlights of the time with the Chinese students. A friend pointed out that I had left you all hanging as to the time with the Chinese kids. :)
The Chinese Students as they arrived in Portland
Our family with Sissi and Rita
Heidi , Thank you for the chance to do this wonderful thing. I still am in touch with my two boys. Their letters are never very long , but are delightful none the less. As you know , my husband wasnt crazy about the idea to begin with but partway into it I asked him what he thought. His reply was " When you do what God wants , wonderful things happen." God Bless you my dear , and here's to the next round!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing the details! It is wonderful to hear how God worked everything out.
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